Wednesday, September 06, 2006
Sunday, September 03, 2006
THE LOVE TEST
THE LOVE TEST
ARE YOU ROMANTIC OR REALISTIC?
(YOU tell ME)
Do you believe in LOVE, that felling of fulfillment, satisfaction, the butterfly effect in the stomach, the feeling of I can reach the top of the world?????
Do you believe that anything is possible in love, that anything is worth doing and trying for in love (now, I sound like the song from Brian Adams:-)?????
I recently done a test on the Internet: Are you romantic or realistic? You can also try this test, here is the link
Well, what I can say about me, or what the test said about me, is that I am more RELISTIC than ROMANTIC (but, you see I already knew that). I have different points on view on love, than what love is presented to be. There were some very interesting questions on the test like,
a) Something that comes naturally
b) Something you have to work for
Well normally I choose B. You see, I am in a relationship for about three years now and I don't think that when you first meet someone, you feel in love with him and everything is just WONDERFUL. NO, NO, NO.......
Of course you have to like someone, you have to be fiscally attracted to him and most importantly you have to feel good in his company, but you have to nurse the relationships to make it work. Love is not a feeling that is suppose to last forever, it is a continuing process of understanding, caring, making compromise, just a little bit of jealousy:-) and most important not being selfish. This is what love is composed of and I know that you would agree with me. It is not like in the movies at all. Happy all the times, together all the times, never wanting to be apart. Well I don't believe in that stuff. The most important thing in a relationship is not losing YOURSELF. Keep your identity that you had before you feel in love.
Another interesting questions was:
When you want to share all your time with someone...
a) it’s love
b) it’s obsession
MY answer B again. As I said before, you have to keep your identity; you will not love someone MORE if you spend all your time with him. Don't forget about your friends, they will be still here for you if you break-up, take some self-time, believe me it will be for the best for both of you.
SO, enough taking from me, tell me WHAT YOU THINK??????
Are you a ROMANTIC, hopelessly devoted, dreaming of the ideal boyfriend, the ideal relationship, or are you REALISTIC, more rational, in love, but not blinded by her.
TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK!!!!!
Saturday, September 02, 2006
I want to begin this blog by first introducing the theme and the reason why I wanted to start writing about LOVE. Actually this isn’t going to be only about love, is going to be about RELATIONSHIPS, work and everyday staff we are facing. I have never in my life wrote a diary, it always seemed to me a bit strange, writing down your felling and emotions to a piece of paper that doesn’t even know how to communicate with you, and than you are not going to have the answers you are hoping to get, you have only written down your thoughts and nothing. Don’t get me wrong, it is OK to let go of your feeling, it is kind of liberating, but it is not helpful, you will continue to search for the answers. So, instead of a diary I decided to talk with my friends sharing everything (but, for this you have to have really GOOD friends). When we go to coffee, we talk and talk for hours and what do we talk about?????
NORMALY, what else that BOYS and LOVE.
It is really interesting listening to all those different stories and situations and at the end they all come down to the same thing. And that is how it always going to be.
So my point with this blog is that we all have PROBLEMS and we are always seeking for advices from others. SO, if you have any kind of dilemma, don’t hesitate to write me, I am not an expert, I am only like you, facing the problems of today and tomorrow, and I need YOUR help too. So, we can all talk together and work things out.
Bye, bye for now, and I HOPE to hear from you soon.